"Be so busy loving your life that you have no time for hate, regret or fear."
"We are the girls with anxiety disorders, filled appointment books, five-year plans. We take ourselves very, very seriously. We are the peacemakers, the do-gooders, the givers, the savers. We are on time, overly prepared, well read, and witty, intellectually curious, always moving… We pride ourselves on getting as little sleep as possible and thrive on self-deprivation. We drink coffee, a lot of it. We are on birth control, Prozac, and multivitamins… We are relentless, judgmental with ourselves, and forgiving to others. We never want to be as passive-aggressive as our mothers, never want to marry men as uninspired as our fathers… We are the daughters of the feminists who said, ‘You can be anything,’ and we heard, ‘You have to be everything.’"
- Allie Brosh, Author of Hyperbole and a Half (via bhenchodpatriarchy)
Ernsthaft. Ich vergebe anderen Menschen, die mich wie Scheiße behandeln, ohne dass sie darum bitten würden, und kann es mir selbst den ganzen Tag vorwerfen, wenn ich einmal ausschlafe, 8 statt 10 Stunden lerne oder zu viel Geld ausgebe.
people with small boobs can sleep on their stomachs so who’s the real winner here
"This is a culture that overemphasizes the sort of heteronormative thing that for women the most important relationship of their lives is going to be the dude that they’re going to fall in love with, as if everybody is straight and that this is the script, and yet, look from my experience as a brother, my sister’s longest, most painful heartbreak was a Sula-like heartbreak, where the most important relationship of her life was a woman. And yet she never had a space to acknowledge or honor it until after it was all over. And that idea of the controlling male or the controlling paradigm that tends to leave that story out I think is very, very important."
I love buying new things but i hate spending money I’m so angry